Wednesday, August 22, 2018

Making Learning Fun

It's been quite a while since I've really been able to share much of what we have been up to this summer, but that's mostly due to the fact that Declan has been away visiting family and Randy has been in the oilfield.  So, I've really not had much going on other than work and hanging out at home with Alice, the cat.  And if anyone has been to San Antonio or the surrounding regions during the summer, I'm sure you can understand why I want to avoid going anywhere; traffic is beyond ridiculous!  They're all goin' to the river!  Anyway, now that Declan is home, I decided to take him last weekend to the Witte Museum for the Dinosaurs: Predator v. Prey exhibit before we missed it.  It's one of our favorite museums, and never disappoints.  

Learning about dinosaur fossils discovered in Texas.

The best part of the Witte Museum is how kid-friendly it is.  The exhibits are put together in a way that make learning so exciting for the younger ones.    





I was so beyond impressed with how Declan was able to easily identify a myriad of dinosaurs that I couldn't even begin to pronounce, and was so proud listening to him tell other children and parents at the exhibits fun facts about whatever they were looking at.  After the Predators v. Prey exhibit, we decided to take another tour around the more stationary parts of the museum.  

Appreciating the arts.



Learning about early transportation in San Antonio.


Declan showing me where on the map we are.

The Witte is a museum that you can genuinely get lost in for hours.  We've been several times, and each time we notice something we hadn't before.  Or, there are things that we enjoyed so much from the previous visit, we just want to see them again.  Another thing I enjoy, especially when the weather is cooperative, is walking the grounds.  It's situated along the northern part of the San Antonio Riverwalk and is just a very peaceful place to hang out with your family.  



I don't deny that I am definitely THAT mom that takes too many photos everywhere we go, but it's hard not to.  

All in all, it was awesome being able to get out and share some one-on-one time with Declan again, especially before he goes back to school and our schedule gets a little more hectic.  We made learning really fun and got to enjoy everything before the afternoon crowds showed up.  This coming weekend, we are going to shoot for the McNay Art Museum in San Antonio for something new!

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Thursday, July 5, 2018

Can't rain on our parade

Yesterday was the 4th and I can say with confidence it was quite a blast (pun intended).  Though we had a slow start to the day, we did take Declan down to the Doseum in San Antonio, a children's museum that he LOVES going to.  We are big fans of pretty much any museum, but the Doseum is great because he has the ability to do virtually everything hands on, as well as burn energy on the playground.  Win, win for parents and kids!

They had a new exhibit, which was a little trippy, but fascinating.  One part included a giant screen that projected images of objects children got to color and scan in.  The entry caught my attention; seriously.. floppy disks.. haha! 😂

When I'd had all I could take of little kids running around like cats high on catnip at 3am, we walked out to a massive storm rolling in.  Part of me worried because I didn't want it to ruin Declan's excitement for fireworks.  The other part was stoked because rain equals green grass and lower electric/water bill.  (Seriously, you know you're an adult when you see clouds rolling in and the first thing you think is, "Thank goodness I remembered to put out the fertilizer.")
We made it home in one piece and the rain let up around 8pm.  Then we played the waiting game for the sun to set so it could be dark enough to light off all the fireworks.  But once it was time, the neighborhood kids ran to our driveway and the party started.



I told him to give me his best Harry Potter pose



The fireworks were fun, the kids were happy, and nobody's lawn caught fire.  All in all, I'd say our 4th was a success!  

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Friday, June 15, 2018

Family Traditions

One thing that I believe is important for a family to have is a tradition.  I personally like to think of traditions as shoelaces; they are what tie families together.  Corny, I know.  Growing up in a military family, travel became familiar to me.  I very much enjoyed road trips (with the exception of the one time my brother got car sick and barfed all over me in Flagstaff, Arizona).  I enjoyed seeing new things and being in new places.  Travel was what brought us so close together. 
Grand Canyon National Park


When my son born, he embarked on his very first cross-country road trip at a whopping one month old.  From that point on, he's practically grown up in the back seat of my car.  Living in California when he was a toddler, we had access to amazing scenery and I knew we had to see and do as much as possible, since we were only set to be there for a few short years.  Right before his first birthday, I decided I wanted to take him to his first national park: Yosemite.  This is where our tradition began.  I made it my mission from that point and each year since to visit a new national park with him.  Right after his second birthday, we made it to Sequoia National Park where he experienced his very first camping trip. 

The third year, I was on the fence on what to do.  I was going through a divorce, but I was determined to not let this tradition I had started slip away from us.  Seeing how much I needed the time away with my little boy, my mom ordered a hiking pack for herself and said, "When are we leaving!?"  She joined us on a trip to the Smokey Mountains.  We sampled moonshine in Gatlinburg, photographed bears in Cades Cove, hiked until our legs turned into Jello, toured the Biltmore Estate in Asheville, and got to drive a hefty chunk of the Blue Ridge Parkway.  

Year four, my brother stepped in and we took Declan to the Everglades.  Ironically, this is a national park my brother and I had been to when I was the age that Declan was when we were taking him.  We did the classic airboat tour that all the tourists do, stopped for a photo at the nation's smallest post office, and went on a tour through Shark Valley with one of the most hilarious tour guides.

In the summer of 2016, I married Randy.  We had been friends since meeting in 2010 and he had seen all the travels I had taken Declan on through posts on Facebook.  By the time we began our chapter together, he knew how important this tradition was and now it became his turn to join in on the adventures.  Park number five for Declan (one for Randy): Big Bend National Park.


First Bluebonnet blooms of the season


Mouth of the Santa Elena Canyon

It's our motto!

Always a fan of a museum exhibit, no matter where we are
Trail sodies



I have to say, West Texas is beautiful.  So much so, that this year we made it to Guadalupe Mountains National Park.  AND as a bonus, since it was so close, we made a day trip up to Carlsbad Caverns and after touring inside the cave, we got to watch a bat flight before leaving.

Happy hiker


Believe it or not, we were actually hiking in snow flurries

Guadalupe Mountains National Park

Quintessential family photo in front of the park entrance



I have no idea what next year will hold for us, but what I've found over the years is that the best part of this tradition is finding something to appreciate in my own backyard.  So often, I get lost on Instagram or Pinterest looking at photos of places outside of the United States, finding myself envious of others for not having the ability to see and do things in other countries.  But then I reflect on all that I have done with my family here and realize just how fortunate we all are for our own experiences.  We've gained a wealth of knowledge in regards to our own nation's history, we've made amazing memories, and we've learned how important having extra socks on every trip are.  

So whether it's a big tradition like what we do, or a small one, start a family tradition.  Tie those shoelaces; keep close to your loved ones.

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Saturday, June 9, 2018

See Ya Soon

(Preface:  I supposed an introductory post to this blog should encompass a little more of what my family life is like.  I believe this gives a little more insight into who I am!)  


Long story short, I was previously married.  I re-married in 2016.  The transition was honestly a lot easier than I thought it would have been for my son.  This may be in part due to the fact that he was so young when these major life-changing events happened, but also because he's pretty much just one of those go-with-the-flow kind of humans.  Unless it's dinner time and he wants to fight me on eating everything put in front of him, as well as staying in his seat at the table until said meal has vanished down the hatch, of course.  

Cardinal rule of parenting: you can't win at everything.


Surprisingly, there are a lot of things your parents teach you when you are little that prepare you for divorce.  Things like, treating others as you wish to be treated.  Or, sharing.  I'd be absolutely lying if I told you any of this was always as easy as it sounds.  Yes, there are times snippets of my crazy have escaped me and ugly phone calls have been made.  There are times I've cried and felt overall this picture was unfair because the majority of the weight was on my shoulders.  But ultimately, none of this is really about me.  It's about him: Declan, my son.  Sure, I wish for my feelings to be taken into consideration but what is most important is that little boy's happiness.  

"Maturity is the ability to think, speak and act your feelings within the bounds of dignity.  The measure of your maturity is how spiritual you become during the midst of your frustrations." -Samuel Ullman

Today touched on the subject of sharing.  My husband, currently in the oilfield, called to see how I was.  I cried a few tears into my coffee mug, packed a suitcase and carry-on, and drove my little boy to the airport to embark on a month-long adventure in New England with his father.  The departure was bittersweet.  It made me so very sad to see him walking into the terminal, but so very happy to see how excited he was.



Does it ever get easier?  I suppose some of it does.  So many times out of frustration, I have begged for a break.  And when the opportunity presents itself, I curse myself for each time I muttered (or shouted) those words.  I have to remind myself this IS good.  It is good for everyone in this picture: Declan, his father, his step-father, extended family.. and even me.  We have to remember that children need their breaks just as much as their parents do.  

I guess you could say this in fact is one of the perks of divorce: essentially guilt-free breaks.  My mom called to check in on my yesterday because she knew I'd be having a tough time with this.  She admitted how difficult it was never having a break (she had two kids available to drive her bat-shit crazy), and how beneficial it would be for me, knowing how much I've been needing the time to get this house together as well as to just de-stress from all the daily pressures at work.  She's right.  Moms are always right.  This will be an excellent opportunity to complete Declan's room makeover, finish painting my living room, READ, get a little sun, and add some more to this blog.

Trunks up for good luck! (Elephants pictured on outfits)


I will miss the hell out of my little boy, but I am excited to see all the updates on the fun he'll be having with his other side of the family.  I can't imagine the excitement they must all be feeling to have this much time with him, as well.  Memories will surely be made that will last them all a wonderful lifetime.

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